Women-Only
Tourism:
Agency and Control in Women's Leisure
by
Diane Levy
University of North Carolina Wilmington
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A growing trend in the
travel industry is women-only tours.
Travel brochures and websites which
advertise trips for women-only groups have
become more frequent (Henderson,
Bialeschki, Shaw, & Freysinger 1996:
187). The first of these companies
arose in the early 1980's, and have become
big business. A casual "Googling" of
women's travel tours produces over 1000
such companies, many with names such as
Adventurous Wench; Gutsy Women Travel;
Women Traveling Together; Journeywomen;
Wildwomen Expeditions, Sights and
Soul, Tea Garden Travel, or Sacred
Journeys for Women. Established tour
companies such as Country Walkers and
Transitions Abroad have also added
specialized "Women's Adventures" to appeal
to this niche market. One
traditional tour company has seen the
women-only travel business increase by 30%
since 2009 (Siber 2013).
The founder of "AdventureWomen", Susan
Eckert, started the company over 30 years
ago to offer travel adventures and people
with whom women could share them.
She wanted to establish a space for women
to travel without the complications that
appear in mixed travel groups such as
gendered behavior within couples, romantic
or sexual tension among singles, or
gender-based stereotypes. She
currently markets more than 25 different
trips, attracting women of different ages
and skill levels, from trekking in Nepal
to whale watching in Baja California,
Mexico
(http://www.womensenews.org/article.cfm/dyn/aid/633
retrieved 2/25/06 ).
First person accounts reveal that women
travel in women-only groups for a
multitude of reasons—some for the group
dynamics of the women-only environment,
others for the safety that group travel
can offer (Aitchison & Reeves
1998).
Research Question: How can
the growth in women's tours be framed in
the context of leisure research,
specifically feminist leisure
theory? How can these be viewed as
acts of social agency in the realm of
control over one's leisure?
Specifically, how do women negotiate the
decisions to travel outside gender norms?
To what extent do they face constraints in
planning and executing independent
travel? The purpose of this
paper is to examine the process of control
of women's leisure within the context of
travel in women-only organizations.
Literature
Review: Gender, Leisure,
and Tourism
A review of the literature on leisure,
gender, and tourism from a feminist
perspective reveals several theoretical
concepts that guide this analysis. Many
studies make reference to the
contradictory impact of leisure and
tourism as situations of both constraint
and empowerment. Leisure and tourism
are social experiences with expectations
shaped by the wider social structure and
culture. While women's participation has
historically been limited and constrained
in many areas of both leisure and tourism,
these activities can offer women real
opportunities for resistance to the
dominant leisure paradigm and
opportunities for empowerment in both
leisure and in general. The
literature focuses on three areas—gender
and leisure constraints; gender and
tourism constraints; and leisure, tourism
and resistance and empowerment and the
implications for women's power.
Gender and Leisure Constraints
Research on gender and
leisure has been consistent in pointing to
gender inequities in both time and quality
of leisure for men and women.
Bittman and Wacjman (2000) studied gender
differences in leisure time in reference
to both quality and quantity of
leisure. Using time surveys, they
found little overall differences in the
total work and leisure time of men and
women, but did find difference in the
quality of the leisure. They found
that "men have more hours of pure leisure
uncontaminated by combination with unpaid
work. In addition, men's leisure is
less likely to be interrupted than
women's" (p. 185). In their
study of men's and women's time diaries,
Mattingly and Sayer (2006) found that even
when men and women have the same amount of
free time, women tend to feel more rushed.
Women's leisure is more fragmented, less
relaxing, and thus of less quality.
Women's choices about their leisure time
occur in the context of their families,
work lives and the larger society (Deem
1999). As a result, "…their choices
are steeped in cultural ideologies about
what types of behaviors are appropriate
for men and women in society" (Henderson,
Hodges, &. Kivel, 2002: 259).
Other factors such as "privilege, power,
and discrimination" also intersect with
gender in affecting choice and access to
leisure activities (Henderson et
al.2002). Some have suggested
that women are more prone to organize
their leisure around family duties than
men (Thompson 1995, cited in Henderson et
al. 2002). Green (1998a) found that
women's leisure occurs in more "snatched
spaces" a result of their multiple
roles. Small (2005) suggests that
the role of mother especially constrains
women's leisure due to the greedy demands
of the motherhood role.
Constraints of women's leisure are not
only temporal. In their work on
feminist perspectives on leisure,
Henderson, Bialeschki, Shaw, and
Freysinger (1996) listed three types of
constraints to women's leisure. The
first, "intrapersonal," refers to the
constraints women appear to place on
themselves in their choice of
activities. These factors are
affected by gender socialization, family
interaction, body image, and traditional
gender roles (p. 196-8). The second
constraint, "interpersonal" deals with the
limitation on the quality and
participation in leisure as a consequence
of interaction with others, for example,
leisure participation may be affected by
family duties, male-female gender power
dynamics, or the wish to organize one's
leisure to please others (p. 201).
Small's (2005) insight that mothers on
holiday with children and family are
obligated and limited in their activities
by their "ethic of care" would illustrate
this constraint. The author had the
opportunity to observe this "ethic of
care" while on holiday at a beach
resort. A common sight at the pool
was mothers and grandmothers dealing with
cranky children while dads and
grandfathers snoozed in their lounge
chairs. Structural constraints, the
third type, refer to the practical and
logistical factors that can limit leisure
activities—issues with economic resources,
transport, safety concerns, or lack of
specific programs (pp. 203-5).
Gender and Tourism
Constraints
Tourism is constrained
by many of the same forces that limit
women's full participation in other forms
of leisure. Tourist experiences are
gendered in their construction,
consumption, and presentation (Kinnaird
& Hall 1994). Women travelers
experience constraints based on their
social and gendered location as
females (Wilson and Little
2005). Previous research has
suggested that women's leisure is
constrained by patriarchal notions of
femininity and the control of tourist
spaces by men as gatekeepers whose
"policies informally function to exclude
women" (Jordan 1998:73). Tourism
organizations have been male-dominated at
upper levels (Jordan 1998: 74) unlike
women's travel companies which tend to be
women-owned. "When examined in
relation to feminist analyses of women's
leisure, the findings…suggest that the
constraints for mid-life women seeking to
holiday alone mirror those identified in
their everyday leisure. The
male-dominated tourism industry acts as a
gatekeeper to women's holiday
participation" (Jordan 1998: 81).
Women's participation in tourism is not
evenly constrained throughout the
lifecycle. Previous research has
suggested that there are different tourist
motivations by gender and at different
stages of life. "…(T)ourist roles
may…serve as vehicles through which
vacationers seek to satisfy unsatisfied
[desires]…and growth needs" (Gibson
& Yiannakis 2002: 359). That is,
vacations give people what home life fails
to provide. For example, at certain
life stages where there is search for
meaning and answers, people --particularly
women-- may select intellectually
stimulating vacations. Another
study from the U.S. suggested that travel
preferences are different for men and
women—"men traditionally seek action and
adventure…while women are more likely to
be searching for cultural and educational
experiences with security being a
priority" (Collins & Tisdell
2002: 135). Previous research found
that gender and life cycle stages matter
in tourist choices: university
educated women have different choices than
others (Pennington-Gray &
Kerstetter 2001) and gender
influences the choice of active sport
vacations and thrill-seeking vacations
(Gibson 1996, 1998). Aitchison and
Reeves (1998) examined tourism and leisure
focusing on gender inequity at various
stages of the life cycle. They
concluded that tourist spaces are gendered
and a woman's access to leisure through
tourism is limited by her inferior
position within the larger patriarchal
society.
Gendered spaces in tourism appear in other
contexts as well. Pritchard and
Morgan (2000) studied the production and
consumption of tourist images and
experiences by analyzing tourist
brochures. They found that
destinations in the brochures could be
divided into male and female landscapes
based on the nature of the images.
Female landscapes focused on the exotic,
sensual features of a destination,
portraying nature and beauty. Male
landscapes were illustrated by images of
adventure and historical male
figures. Pritchard and Morgan
concluded that destinations are gendered
in their marketing appeal to men and women
in a way that reinforces and "reaffirms
gender and international power relations "
(p. 900 ). Tourism as a
leisure activity is a reflection of the
gendered power relations within both the
host and the guest societies.
[For a fuller discussion of tourism's
impact on gender in host societies see
Enloe (1989) and Levy and Lerch (1991).]
Travel choices are not gender neutral, and
although marketing research shows that the
majority of family travel decisions are
made by women
(http://www.gutsytraveler.com/mbbStatistics.html
retrieved Feb 25, 2006), their choices for
travel and tourist activities remain
constrained by social conventions and
cultural definitions of acceptable
behaviors.
Leisure, Tourism,
Resistance and Control
Studies have suggested
that tourism as a form of leisure has the
potential to offer women an opportunity to
assert control through "resistance from
constraining discourses" (Small 2005:
140). Wearing and Wearing's
work (1996: 240) elaborates on how tourism
can expand the traditional cultural
limitations of women's experience through
social interaction with host societies and
expanding the boundaries of culturally
defined activities. In their later work
they examine the notion of self and
identity and assert that:
"tourism
serves to provide a free area, a mental
and physical escape from the immediacy
of the multiplicity of impinging
pressures in technological society and,
as such, holiday experiences provide a
scope for the nurturance and cultivation
of human identity" (Wearing &
Wearing 2001:150).
Travel is a choice,
and one can select one's companions.
Small (2005: 140) emphasizes that when
travel and tourism is a "freely chosen and
self-determined activity…it implies agency
and the exercise of power."
Through leisure, and especially the
variety that rejects traditional gendered
discourses, women have the option to
resist constraints and act as agents in
their own empowerment. In their
study of solo women travelers, Jordan and
Gibson (2005) found that there were many
factor that women cited in their enjoyment
of solo travel—"feelings of freedom,
spontaneity, pride, and strength" (p.204)
and empowerment. How do women's tours
mediate gendered leisure and tourism
constraints, and what is their potential
for women asserting control over their own
leisure?
What are the lived experiences and
reflections of women who had been involved
with women-only tours? To
address this question, I conducted
in-depth, open-ended interviews with nine
women in two different tourism
situations. Four of the respondents
were associated with one North
Carolina-based company, "WomenRetreats",
which had a focus of a specific learning
activity on each trip. The
respondents had different roles in the
activity--one woman was the owner and
creative director of the company (Patty);
two women were tour leaders (Marla and
Liz); one was a client (Barbara).
[All names of participants are fictitious,
as is the name of the company.]
Patty was not only the owner, but the yoga
instructor and all-around logistics
organizer and problem-solver on the trips;
Liz was a trail guide who worked in hiking
and dog-sledding trips; Marla was a
well-known local artist who taught
painting on the trips. Barbara
participated in four different trips as a
client—two golfing, one creative writing,
and the Alaska dog-sled trip. I
gained access to the respondents based on
an acquaintance with one of the
instructors, who led me to the
others. All were volunteers and were
eager to share their thoughts and
experiences. In addition, I was a
participant observer in a women's
adventure holiday trip to a Dude Ranch in
the Western US. The remaining
five respondents [Anna, Carol, Kate,
Julia, and Rachel] were members of this
group.
The interviews were all semi-structured in
that I approached the interviews with some
basic questions and allowed the women to
discuss their experiences in their own
voices. The interviews were
conducted in public places, usually cafes
or restaurants in a small Southern U.S.
city or on-site at the Dude Ranch.
Each interview was recorded on tape and
lasted between 90 minutes and 2 hours. The
participant observation lasted the entire
week of the Dude Ranch trip as I lived
with the participants and took part in all
the group activities. After one hike
at 10,000 feet, I held an informal "focus
group" at the top of the mountain where
Anna, Carol, Kate, Julia, and Rachel
shared their thoughts and reflections of
the experience. This was recorded
and later transcribed. Using
grounded theory, I analyzed the interviews
for recurrent themes and issues.
The basic ideology of the women-only tour
company "WomenRetreats" was to offer
"artistic, athletic, cultural getaways for
women 30 or better." The mission
statement reads: "We make it easy
for women to take time out for themselves
and provide opportunities for them to
pursue new and exciting, empowering
possibilities while taking care of their
inner selves." All trips lasted from
4 to 10 days, and involved travel to
special locations to pursue creative,
active or educational group
activities. Along with the focus
activity such as photography or hiking,
the retreats involved gourmet meals and
snacks, daily yoga, massages, residence in
high-end inns, and the luxury of all
details taken care of by the staff.
Constraints to
Women's Leisure
In talking with the
women involved in WomenRetreats and the
Dude Ranch, issues of the conflict between
women's leisure and caregiving were often
mentioned. All participants realized
the constraints of access to leisure for
women based on their multiple roles.
As Patty, the founder of WomenRetreats,
describes when asked why she started the
company….
"I
realized because I'm typical there would
have to a gazillion other women just
like this and wouldn't it be fun to do
this with other women—it could be a
business. I love women I love
being around them—the notion of giving
to them. Women on vacation are
never really off—taking care of
everyone. Wouldn't it be great to go on
vacation and have somebody else take
care of all of the details? I
would tell the women the biggest
decision they'd have to make is whether
to have a second cup of coffee in the
morning. …...I never went on a
trip like that. This business was
birthed from taking care of people for
20 years and now I see how nice it is to
be taken care of."
Not
just time, but feeling entitled to leisure
was an issue. These women mentioned that
the necessity of caring for
others—children, spouse, elderly
parents—as well as their work obligations
made it difficult to justify their time
away. Some women had the concern
that the very act of leaving the family
would be viewed as a potential act of
betrayal. They had to deal
with their own guilt in taking time and
resources for themselves.
Occasionally women had to ask for
permission from spouses and Patty says,
"the ones who had to ask permission didn't
get it." They often expressed
hesitation about desiring a trip away from
their partners. For some,
leaving their daily obligations took
cleverness to get the support of husbands
and partners:
Patty:
"There were other women who'd say, they
hemmed and hawed, and at the dinner
table with their husband and kids they
say 'I'm kinda thinking of going on this
retreat, trip for women' and they'd all
say great wow where are you going, we're
so happy for you and women would learn
they had supportive families they didn't
know because they'd been doing all the
nurturing and supporting."
For many women, the obstacles were
financial –these were expensive
trips. It meant saving on their own
for a holiday to please themselves.
Or it meant having to arrange their lives
so they could be gone from the
family. Some expressed guilt that
they were leisure resources that could
have been used for family travel.
Kate, a Dude Ranch participant, mentioned
that she often travels for work, but this
is different. She feels like she
could occasionally travel with women, but
"I feel a little guilty, and I wouldn't
put this above travel with my
family. I don't feel like I could do
this again in two months without first
having a family trip."
Even on a women's
trip, they had to fulfill their
obligations at home.
Liz:
"This was huge for them—a holiday they
chose not to spend with their
families. ….For most it's been a
sacrifice of time and money to do
it….. for some people it's a real
challenge and a sacrifice—not just
financial. Some women just to
arrange childcare—they can't count on
their husbands. My experience is
that there are a lot of obstacles to
overcome for women to do these trips,
not just financial."
Some women felt justified that they could
take their own holidays as "payback" for
their husband's leisure. Julia
joked that since her husband goes off
"with the boys" on car racing weekends,
she feels like she can use that as
leverage when she wants time for
herself. Anna, a
participant in the Dude Ranch group,
elaborated on the various permissions she
felt she needed before she could commit to
a week away:
I had to check it out with everybody,
had to get my husband to change his
schedule….I had to make sure everybody
else was OK, even months before, so
there was a lot of preparation and
permission getting…from my husband and
kids and even my 88 year old mother—I
had to reassure her..
Kate agreed that it takes a lot of
preparation to get away—organizing
everyone's schedule, leaving notes,
getting food in. Rachel
mentioned that she worried that her
husband wasn't eating well while she is
away. With all the concern and
preparation, though, it seemed to be worth
it:
Patty:
"One woman, it was the first time in 30
years that she'd been away without her
husband. And she reveled in it…it
was so exciting for her."
Barbara: "The
trips were pretty goal-oriented, that
was the focal point. For a lot of
the women it was life-changing, it was
the first time they stepped outside the
family shadow and did something on their
own, and say screw it, you guys, you'll
just be OK this week, I'm not
available. And for them it was
very liberating. One woman was
crying, talking about what it meant to
her to do something on her own."
Several of the respondents were mindful of
the empowering aspects of the trips and
how these fit into a feminist
framework. This is reflective
of Wearing's suggestion that travel could
offer women an opportunity to "resignify"
their subjectivities so they are no longer
inferiorized (Wearing 1998, cited in
Jordan and Gibson 2005: 205).
There was an awareness of women's stepping
outside of their normal comfort zones to
attend the tours. While not
specifically billed as an adventure trip,
the activities were often completely new
and exciting to the participants—but with
very low actual risk as the details were
all covered by the organizers and
guides. However, Patty adds, that
for many of the clients it was "the
most adventurous thing they had ever
done."
During the trips, some women had to take
charge of tasks they had always turned
over to men. For example, on the
hiking trail trip, participants set up
their own tents. One woman
commented: "On backpacking trips with my
husband, I let him put up the tent—but
when there's nobody around with a penis,
the women just do everything."
Traveling with only women, women accept
greater challenges, court greater
responsibility, acquire new skills, gain
confidence and a heightened sense of
worth.
When asked if there was a feminist
philosophy in play among the participants,
Patty replied, "there was the element of
women's pride in their accomplishments,
but not male-bashing." The women
were aware that they were being empowered,
but also pampered.
Women's Trips and
Community as a Factor in Power
Women's leisure is
often characterized by increased levels of
social support rather than
competition. Earlier studies found
the importance of older women's leisure
with other women in their life
satisfaction., self-esteem and self-image.
(O'Neill 1993). Further, sharing new
experiences and challenges in the context
of a women's group empowered the
participants to act "out of
gender." "(I)t is often within
women-only contexts that specific
opportunities for resistance to gender
stereotyped roles and images occur" (Green
1998b: 176). The women of
WomenRetreats and at the Dude Ranch were
aware of the unique ability of women's
trips to create a social group of women to
act as a support system for the
participants. Liz, the hiking guide,
expressed it like this:
"Part of
it for me was wanting to create a
community….women form a different kind
of community when they are together than
men and women. I've been on some
of these trips with my husband in groups
and I find that men tend to be more
competitive …I wanted to be with women
in a non-competitive
experience. If women could
be separate from their significant
other, my experience is that they have a
different sense of who they are and a
greater freedom to express a part of
themselves that they don't always when
they are in company with men…I think
sometimes women are unable to express
all parts of themselves when they are
with men. … Somehow when you're
with other women…you can take a risk
that you might not normally… If
you're with your spouse you may not take
the risk."
Green's work on women's friendships as a
factor in leisure emphasizes the effect of
women-only groups as "liberating in terms
of gendered identity construction"
and offer opportunities for "self
empowerment and autonomy" (1998b:
176). Women on these ventures were
thought to be more supportive and less
competitive, especially in trying new
activities, engaging in a less threatening
environment, especially when compared to
previous experiences with mixed-gender
groups. Carol, a participant from
the Dude Ranch trip believed that if
spouses were on the trip,
… the
dominant activities would have always
been the physical male activities and it
would have been competitive. [As
all women] we had this idea of
inclusion, of everybody doing
everything.
Anna felt freer to
participate in a new activity—fly
fishing—on the Dude Ranch given the
support of the community of women:
Because everybody else was a novice, I
felt very comfortable being a complete
klutz and I surprised myself and really
enjoyed it. I'm not sure I would
have done it with people who were really
proficient at it. There was a lot
of permission in the group. There was a
lot of encouragement from these women
and a lack of ego in these women.
Kate elaborated:
"I felt supported in the fly- fishing
and would have stayed on with the women
doing it, but if my husband were here, I
would have felt pressure to keep up with
him. I might have quit
earlier."
"Women-only groups can provide a different
experience because women can be themselves
and are relatively free of role
expectations" (Henderson et al.1996:
187). And, these trips offer freedom from
the emotional work in a marriage.
Rachel, a Dude Ranch guest opined, "No one
in the group is obligated to make you
happy, whereas you may feel that with a
spouse, there's the obligation to
read his mind " and special concern
for his happiness as well as your
own.
In fact, I observed some not-so-subtle
social control with a woman who maintained
too frequent contact with her home and
family. When one of the Dude Ranch
participants called home and spoke to her
teenage daughter for the third time, the
other women expressed disapproval.
"She can live for a few days without you,"
they teased. Most of the women
avoided contact with home and husbands,
even to the point of claiming lack of cell
phone service (not entirely untrue, in
this case).
The cocoon of support on some of the
WomenRetreats tours allowed women to act
completely outside of conventional
expectations. Liz commented on
how they share secrets and stories within
the groups:
"I
certainly know that when women travel
together they share stories that they
might not share in other
circumstances. I know more about a
lot of women than I know most people in
their communities know. Because
there's a freedom that comes from being
together. Often when you're in
circumstances that are outside of your
norm and you get comfortable you do talk
about things that are on your mind and
may act in ways you wouldn't normally."
Apparently, out-of- gender role behaviors
can go far beyond talking and sharing
stories. Green suggests that women-only
leisure allows women the chance to "'let
their hair down' and 'behave badly', i.e.,
out of the limits of "normal, acceptable,
womanly behavior" (1998b: 181).
Women in this safe and supportive
environment on WomenRetreats would
occasionally act in quite bawdy and risky
behavior—more in the style of college-aged
"girls gone wild" than the socially
expected stereotypical behavior of proper
middle aged "ladies".
Patty:
"The trip began on Sunday, and I want to
say it was Tuesday when one of the women
stripped off her clothes and ran naked
on the golf course and kissed a
golfer….that night they're taking off
their shirts in the dining room and
howling because they have boobs that are
hanging down to their knees and they're
laying them on the table. Laughing
about what's happened to our bodies and
really enjoying it.
They got it out of their system and
bonded."
A
key feature of each of the trips was
self-development—learning a new skill,
testing one's limits, or renewing a
commitment to an activity. Coleman
and Iso-Ahola (1993) suggested that this
is a key vehicle through which leisure can
contribute to individual well-being.
Marla, the painting instructor, noted how
that the technical instruction was only
part of the learning process. She
recognized how important her encouragement
was to the women who were tentative about
trying new things. She was convinced
that her job was
"…much
more psychotherapy than teaching
art. Just people –you have to get
them over mental blocks. ' I can't do
this—I can't draw a straight line with a
ruler'—Well, just have fun, let's
just experiment….don't judge
yourself. Everybody expected to
leave with frameable art even though
they had no confidence and were so hard
on themselves."
Marla mentioned how clients would look
toward the instructors as their "new best
friends." She says:
"The
trip is about women rekindling some
interest—something they denied because
they spent their lives taking care of
everyone but themselves. A chance
of having a few days of being pampered
and being in a gorgeous place, good
food, tons of wine, some way too much
and then we really had to get into
psychotherapy when they start telling
you all about their husbands, sex life
and anorexic daughters. There was
a whole lot of talking, intense talking,
as if you were going to be best friends
forever."
Empowerment and
Control: Changing Lives
Some women chose
to attend a women's tour because of a
desire to recognize a new stage in their
lives, a big birthday, the death of a
close family member, or a recovery from an
illness. To act in a purposeful
manner enriched their self-concept with
"sense of self-determination" (Coleman and
Iso-Ahola 1993:119). By
participating in the trip they were
asserting control over some life events
and the ability to initiate action and
agency. This is also what is called
"rite of passage tourism" (Graburn
2001). A vacation from one's
everyday life may be used to signify a
movement between stages of life or a major
life transition. Marla
stated that the individual personal
reasons for joining the group often
emerged very early in the group
interaction:
" [Women
chose this trip for] being with all
women, for an emphasis on being taken
care of, taking time for themselves;
giving yourself this gift. There
were several people who had been really,
really sick, who were going through some
horrendous cancers, and didn't have good
prognoses. There were always lots
of tears. Even at the
introductions, there were always people
who cried, saying why they came and
they've never done anything like
this."
Marla identified experiences during the
trips that enriched the women and changed
lives:
"We had
a few wonderful breakthroughs, like
people having massages who hadn't been
touched in years, like the 400 pound
woman and a handicapped woman.
They said it changed their lives—they'd
forgotten how wonderful it was –it made
them happier people."
Many women used the experience as a
catalyst to make positive changes in their
lives. They promised to eat better,
relax more with yoga, and continue to
develop the skills they practiced on the
retreat. Patty looked back at one of
her older clients:
"That
was Gladys. She came in a
wheelchair. She was 78. She
asked for orange juice and I thought she
was a non-drinker. It turns out it
was to go with her vodka! She was
at the island painting trip. She
decided to get a golf cart when she got
home to go all over the place to paint
and not be stuck indoors anymore."
The measure of success for a temporary and
artificially created situation like these
leisure trips would be the extent that the
clients would incorporate their new skills
and self-determination into their lives at
home. The tour-guide Liz was
convinced that this was likely:
"Quite
often the women come for the challenge
and the adventure and do something
completely out of the norm and some want
to do it they want to have some
experience doing something they love so
that they can continue it—like a jump
start to keep doing. …Take home the
actual skill or more intangible things
like taking care of themselves hanging
out with women more, honoring
themselves... they have the sense that
this has been a wonderful
thing—how can I have more of this
when I'm at home."
If vacations give people what home life
fails to provide, these trips offered a
"liminal" experience (Graburn 2001) and
quite a change from the women's everyday
activities . As opportunities to
step out of the normal patterns of
caregiving and daily routines, these trips
as women's trips, offered a form and style
of leisure that was experienced by
participants—both clients and staff-- as
life-affirming. Patty sums up her
impression of the trips as uniquely
women's' leisure experiences:
"They
are really important. There's a
piece of me that can say it's a bunch of
spoiled women getting to have a good
time—don't they already have good enough
lives, but I think that every one of
them left feeling better about
themselves, feeling more
confident…. When they all left
they left with a feeling that they could
do more than they thought they
could. Many of them made changes
in their lives, from tiny, tiny little
changes to big leaps….Women have always
created ways to be together. We
are separated in our homes and the
workplace and we find it hard to embrace
each other in a safe place. So I
created the company. Many of
the art participants said, when I get
home I'm cleaning up the spare room and
gonna make a studio—I'm gonna make a
space for myself. Just the
recognition that it's OK to take time
for themselves and they got the feedback
and support from their families."
Discussion and
Conclusions--Women's Agency and
Women-only Tours
Within the context of feminist ideology,
women's tours are a contradiction.
Just as "one size doesn't fit all" in
women's leisure in general (Henderson
1996), women's trips can be challenging
traditional gender arrangements or
reinforce traditional gender. On one
hand, they appear to empower women and
allow women the venue in which to take
more control over their lives. If
undertaken with a sense of independence,
women's leisure can be viewed as source of
power and resistance—women can be "active
agents in constructing their lives "(Green
1998a: 117). The multiple
obligations of work, home, and family
highlight women's desire for a release
from these burdens on holiday. Women's
tours offer a respite from the daily
routine, and by excluding husbands and
children, women can take a respite from
caregiving and achieve the relaxation and
role-release not possible on a family
holiday. A trip away with a group of
strangers also allows one to leave one's
everyday identity at home, and take on a
new persona.
When you travel with a group, your new
friends have no preconceived notions
about you. You do not carry the same
"baggage" as you might if you were
traveling with people whom you have
known for a long time. You have the
freedom to loosen up, try on a new
persona, and be open to both a new
destination and new people. (Whitman,
http://www.transitionsabroad.com/listings/travel/women/articles/women-group-travel.shtml
retrieved April 2, 2011)
As such, women's tourism can be viewed in
this context as "resistance" where women
participate in activities and occupy
touristic spaces that have been
traditionally contested (Jordan and Gibson
2005). In addition, leisure-travel
can provide a context for agency and
control over their own identity
production. As described by the
participants in "WomenRetreats," traveling
with an all-women group allowed these
women to develop new skills, conquer
fears, connect with others, engage in
intimate conversation, and share
experiences on a deep level. Free
from the expectation of romantic
involvement, gendered role obligations in
couples, or competition between
participants, many women experience
women-only travel as empowering and
life-affirming (Jordan and Gibson
2005). The fact that many women made
drastic efforts to take this new-found
power home with them is telling.
These were more than holidays, they were
life-changing events which added to their
well-being as whole persons. Marla,
the art instructor, reinforced this notion
with her comment on how women benefit from
their experience:
"…
To be taken care of, to see a new
beautiful place; to develop this art
interest, to increase their confidence,
and hopefully go on with it for the rest
of their lives."
However, while many women's trips offer
women the opportunity to step outside the
restrictions of the gender–role box, other
all-women tour groups could act to
reinforce traditional gender. By focusing
on stereotypical women's activities such
as shopping or cooking, some trips are
actually "doing gender" by involving women
in traditional feminine activities.
The constraint identified in feminist
studies of leisure remains an issue in
women's tours if they serve only to
channel women into traditionally
stereotypical areas of interest and
activity, and regurgitate essentialist
gender differences. From one
tour-group website:
"Men and
women travel very differently….While men
tend to be very goal-oriented and like
to accomplish as much as possible on
their vacation, women enjoy the more
relaxed pace and combining seeing sights
with immersing themselves in various
aspects of the culture: shopping the
local markets, speaking with local
children and paying attention to the
color of the local stone and the local
flowers."
"So when you go by
yourself or when you go with a
women-only tour, you get to decide if
you want to walk out of the science
museum or have chocolate for lunch or
try on hair accessories for two hours
without explaining to anyone."
"Men should not be
threatened by this," she adds, "because
they've been going off with their
friends to hunt and to fish for
centuries."
(http://www.gonomad.com/womens/0701/women-only.html
retrieved 3/15/13)
This quote is telling in that the dominant
assumption reflects gender-stereotypical
different travel interests. It also
assumed that women who travel with men
partners or families have little control
over their own leisure experiences.
Indeed, Deem states that the typical
British "self-catering" holiday is a
vacation for everyone but the wife/mother
who is expected to maintain all her
feminine role obligations in a holiday
cottage with fewer resources than she
would have at home (1986).
Additionally, mainstream travel companies
have recognized women-only tours as a
potentially lucrative niche market, and
are pitching trips to women in an
aggressive way. For example, travel
agents are encouraged to use a "Darwinian
market strategy" using gender
stereotypes. They are advised
that in order to appeal to women,
use their tendency to like storytelling,
form relationships, and recognize
milestone events such as a big
birthday. One traditional travel
corporation, Maupintour, has purchased
Gutsy Women Travel, employing women to
head that branch of the company.
Their marketing is "designed to appeal to
the multi-tasking nature of women" and
offer them and opportunity to "recharge
their energies in the company of other
like-minded women in fascinating
destinations."
(http://gutsywomentravel.com/2013/about/gwt,
retrieved 3/29/13). Whereas
initially women tour companies were
women-owned and run, they now appear to be
increasing falling into the portfolios of
corporate markets.
While this study was not intended to
include a comprehensive content analysis
of tourism marketing literature, I did
find that travel brochures, websites, and
advertisements specifically marketing
women's trips were a rich source of
material. These materials used the
images of independence, skill-development,
relaxation, and freedom from daily
obligations in their marketing.
Women are encouraged to "do something for
themselves" and choose to celebrate in the
company of other women. The promise
of the escape from the constraints of
daily role obligations used by the
advertising materials in print and on the
internet suggests that these companies are
appealing to women's desire for release
from their caregiving roles to spend time
on themselves. The tour company
websites are sprinkled with quotations
designed to inspire women to take life in
their hands and travel. (Some
examples--"Travel for women is a gift to
give yourself"; [Serendipity traveler
website] ; they invite "…women
wanderers to share the world in a fun,
supportive group." Women's Adventures
offer women of all ages "time out" for
themselves and the opportunity to
experience the world on trips designed
exclusively for women (Country Walkers
website). The tours in various
companies range from hiking the
Appalachian Trail, biking in New Zealand,
creative writing on an island off the
coast of Georgia, cooking in Italy,
crossing the Moroccan desert on camelback
or shopping in Paris. Most tours are
sensitive to nature and the environment, a
variety of skill-levels, friendships and
relationships initiated on the trips, and
the perceived need of women to want to
experience travel in a group setting and
form a community.
From the analysis of my data, there
is evidence that women's tours enable
women to experience leisure in new ways
while encouraging them to share and form
community with other women—all the while
allowing them the freedom to reject
traditional roles and constraints.
For our respondents, women-only tours
allow collective resistance to gendered
roles and expectations where women are
able to challenge "acceptable womanly
behavior" (Green 1998a: 120). In
fact, this is the theme on which most are
sold to the public. However, it is
only women with a substantial level of
social and economic resources that
currently can take advantage of these
women's tours. Although some
companies claim to cater to all budgets,
most attract women with the ability to
spend thousands of dollars on a short
holiday—clearly limiting the activity to
women of some privilege.
Unfortunately, women with the most need to
escape may be priced out. Unequal
access to leisure and tourism reflects the
larger inequities of race and class as
well as gender.
For many decades, travel has been a
typical method of asserting women's
independence. Written accounts from
the 19th and 20th centuries have left an
intriguing record of their spirit of
adventure and willingness to challenge
established gender norms.
"[E]ach hoped to escape her mother's
world, and each employed her travels as a
source of creative, professional
production" (Butler 1995: 488). It
appears that the 21st century version of
women traveling together to achieve
certain goals fits within the model from
earlier generations—women using tourism as
"source of independence " (Butler 489) and
resistance to gendered worlds.
However, the ultimate truism of a holiday
is that one must return home. It is
in that context that we could most likely
evaluate the consequences for
independence, power and agency, resistance
and control.
Acknowledgements
Thanks
to George Conklin and one anonymous
reviewer for assistance with this piece.
Many sincere thanks to the women who let
me into their lives on the Dude Ranch and
by generously giving their time for
interviews. Hats off to the
Cowgirls!
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